Spaces has become a place I often retreat to, where I find so much joy in sharing the humour of everyone’s daily lives that I have been in stitches with laughter
And It’s also a place where I have found many a tale that has had me weeping, as I have followed the emotions of people who were once upon a time just a name on a logo.. But over the years have become firm friends as we share our daily experiences and knowledge.
Today I need to share a little of that sadness with you, as you all celebrated in my joy..
Alas we are not going to be grandparents.. as my Son and his partner lost their baby… They were told that the baby wasn’t developing as it should, and that nature would kick in, in due course.. And sadly it wasn’t meant to be.. Obviously they are devastated as are we, But nature sometimes knows best..
In a way one has to be grateful that it happened now rather than much later… But its still hard when you saw the joy on my Sons and his partners face as they told us the news…
I just ask that you send out a prayer to all of those who are in similar situations not only those who have miscarried, but to all those who have lost a loved one in whatever circumstances..
May they all rest in peace.. and be forever remembered in our hearts..
Dreamwalker
Dreamwalker's Sanctuary 
Nov 05, 2009 @ 02:43:45
oh darling i am so very sorry to hear this news, i will certainly pray for them, and my hearts go out to you all, but i am sure it was better now than later, and i am sure they will go on to be fantastic parents.love to you all xx
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Nov 05, 2009 @ 04:28:33
All my love. God bless you all.
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Nov 05, 2009 @ 06:57:54
DreamwalkerMay you know that we are all thinking of you, your son and his partner,Take caresue
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Nov 05, 2009 @ 07:28:53
Amen! But don\’t give up….God only will give us as much as he knows we can handle…Then he rewards us at another time.
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Nov 05, 2009 @ 09:00:27
Oh sweety I am so sorry. Personally I have myself gone through what your son has many times. People don\’t understand the little one was precious and will say try again. I know you will help them in the sorrow and grieving and depression. They all are in my prayers.
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Nov 05, 2009 @ 18:57:06
Sorry to hear that sad news DreamwalkerI can imagine how hard it is for you allYou are in my thougts dear friend… love/eclipse
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Nov 05, 2009 @ 21:30:53
I have sent out a prayer & their future will be brighter as they plan another child. They have an angel now. Dianna
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Nov 06, 2009 @ 15:20:59
Thank you all.. for your very kind thoughts and prayers… they are very much appreciated… Tomorrow is a new day.. and we have much to be very thankful for… Blessings Dreamwalker xxx
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Nov 06, 2009 @ 17:04:27
prayers miscarriage can be so very painful angel eyes
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Nov 06, 2009 @ 17:58:11
am so sorry to hear this.. yes they do stay in our hearts ~x~
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Nov 06, 2009 @ 20:11:33
So sorry Dreamwalker
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Nov 06, 2009 @ 22:22:13
Sorry to hear this Dreamwalker how sad, my prayers I send to you and your family.Take Care xx
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Nov 08, 2009 @ 15:35:05
I am so sorry to hear this sad news. It happens much more often than we think. I know it\’s causing deep sorrow but I still think nature knows its best. If this child would be born, maybe life would be very difficult and painfull for everyone of you, even him or her. Because of that I believe it\’s better to not be born at all. I also believe they would become parents soon. Just don\’t lose your faith.Warm hug,T
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Nov 08, 2009 @ 16:27:54
It is very sad when we lose our loved ones. Words cannot describe the pain and grief…
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Nov 08, 2009 @ 23:28:32
So sorry to hear this bad news and my deepest condolences to you and your family…
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Nov 09, 2009 @ 02:19:53
An Angel needed in Heaven XxX Love & Hugs to you and your family Dreamwalker XxX
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Nov 13, 2009 @ 22:10:50
Hi Sue ..i was so sorry to read your blog hun regarding your Son and his Girlfriends news, i know you all, as a close family were so delighted at becoming parents, and granparents. May you all gain the stength you need from each other at this sad time ….and my thoughts are with you all….take care my friend Polly xx
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Nov 26, 2009 @ 13:23:12
The loss of a mutual dream between a loving couple brings sadness , but the loss of your son and his partners truly is devestating and something that can never be forgotten , the little life will be remembered for eternity.Your family have my condolences , I truly understand your loss and its effects on a familyIan
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Nov 02, 2013 @ 14:29:18
I stumbled upon this post…I was enjoying spending some time on your wonderful website…my cup gets filled here. 🙂
Anyways, when I mentioned if I would be chosen to be a parent a couple comments back….alas….this is part of what I was referring to. A couple years ago, my husby and I had a miscarriage…right after the loss of my brother…it was a hard time for sure. Since then, we haven’t been able to conceive. Not sure what the issue is, but I’m at peace with what the Universe has in store. Whatever’s meant to be is meant to be…but, like you said, I have many children and I’m able to give to them in ways I wouldn’t be able to if I did have kiddos.
And a part of me wants to change the world so badly, I sometimes wonder if it’s not actually a good thing I don’t have little souls milling about.
But a part of me wants a little soul milling about…so badly. I suppose it could still happen. In the meantime, I enjoy the peace I have in my life – living in the country with my husby, recuperating from a life with six brothers and sisters….haha. 😉
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Nov 04, 2013 @ 14:02:48
Cyndi, I was sorry to hear about your loss, I know how hard that is.. as you read the post here… But I am sure when the time is meant to be, then it will be.. I have heard so many stories about couples who try so hard to conceive and fail, and then when they think thats it, and give up, they become parents… I often think the Universe gives us what we want.. literally.. We say we WANT so often and so are left WANTING.. I can so understand you wanting a little one.. And I too came from a large family as did my hubby.. I was the eldest of 5, and my Hubby is one of 6.. Thank you so much for commenting… And sometimes I think we are guided along our stumbling path 😉 LOL 🙂 xxx
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