Sharing Joy, And Sharing Sadness.

Spaces has become a place I often retreat to, where I find so much joy in sharing the humour of everyone’s daily lives that I have been in stitches with laughter

And It’s also a place where I have found many a tale that has had me weeping,  as I have followed the emotions of people who were once upon a time just a name on a logo.. But over the years have become firm friends as we share our daily experiences and knowledge.

Today I need to share a little of that sadness with you, as you all celebrated in my joy..

Alas we are not going to be grandparents.. as my Son and his partner lost their baby… They were told that the baby wasn’t developing as it should, and that nature would kick in, in due course.. And sadly it wasn’t meant to be..  Obviously they are devastated as are we, But nature sometimes knows best..

In a way one has to be grateful  that it happened now rather than much later… But its still hard when you saw the joy on my Sons and his partners face as they told us the news…

I just ask that you send out a prayer to all of those who are in similar situations not only those who have miscarried, but to all those who have lost a loved one in whatever circumstances..

May they all rest in peace.. and be forever remembered in our hearts..

Dreamwalker

Advertisements

20 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. Sweet
    Nov 05, 2009 @ 02:43:45

    oh darling i am so very sorry to hear this news, i will certainly pray for them, and my hearts go out to you all, but i am sure it was better now than later, and i am sure they will go on to be fantastic parents.love to you all xx

    Like

    Reply

  2. Happy JAK
    Nov 05, 2009 @ 04:28:33

    All my love. God bless you all.

    Like

    Reply

  3. Sue
    Nov 05, 2009 @ 06:57:54

    DreamwalkerMay you know that we are all thinking of you, your son and his partner,Take caresue

    Like

    Reply

  4. Samuel J
    Nov 05, 2009 @ 07:28:53

    Amen! But don\’t give up….God only will give us as much as he knows we can handle…Then he rewards us at another time.

    Like

    Reply

  5. Babblelot
    Nov 05, 2009 @ 09:00:27

    Oh sweety I am so sorry. Personally I have myself gone through what your son has many times. People don\’t understand the little one was precious and will say try again. I know you will help them in the sorrow and grieving and depression. They all are in my prayers.

    Like

    Reply

  6. .
    Nov 05, 2009 @ 18:57:06

    Sorry to hear that sad news DreamwalkerI can imagine how hard it is for you allYou are in my thougts dear friend… love/eclipse

    Like

    Reply

  7. Di'
    Nov 05, 2009 @ 21:30:53

    I have sent out a prayer & their future will be brighter as they plan another child. They have an angel now. Dianna

    Like

    Reply

  8. Dreamwalker
    Nov 06, 2009 @ 15:20:59

    Thank you all.. for your very kind thoughts and prayers… they are very much appreciated… Tomorrow is a new day.. and we have much to be very thankful for… Blessings Dreamwalker xxx

    Like

    Reply

  9. Angel eyes
    Nov 06, 2009 @ 17:04:27

    prayers miscarriage can be so very painful angel eyes

    Like

    Reply

  10. freckles
    Nov 06, 2009 @ 17:58:11

    am so sorry to hear this.. yes they do stay in our hearts ~x~

    Like

    Reply

  11. Rosemary
    Nov 06, 2009 @ 20:11:33

    So sorry Dreamwalker

    Like

    Reply

  12. Sheila
    Nov 06, 2009 @ 22:22:13

    Sorry to hear this Dreamwalker how sad, my prayers I send to you and your family.Take Care xx

    Like

    Reply

  13. T
    Nov 08, 2009 @ 15:35:05

    I am so sorry to hear this sad news. It happens much more often than we think. I know it\’s causing deep sorrow but I still think nature knows its best. If this child would be born, maybe life would be very difficult and painfull for everyone of you, even him or her. Because of that I believe it\’s better to not be born at all. I also believe they would become parents soon. Just don\’t lose your faith.Warm hug,T

    Like

    Reply

  14. Les
    Nov 08, 2009 @ 16:27:54

    It is very sad when we lose our loved ones. Words cannot describe the pain and grief…

    Like

    Reply

  15. Douglas
    Nov 08, 2009 @ 23:28:32

    So sorry to hear this bad news and my deepest condolences to you and your family…

    Like

    Reply

  16. LiL'Kt
    Nov 09, 2009 @ 02:19:53

    An Angel needed in Heaven XxX Love & Hugs to you and your family Dreamwalker XxX

    Like

    Reply

  17. Polly
    Nov 13, 2009 @ 22:10:50

    Hi Sue ..i was so sorry to read your blog hun regarding your Son and his Girlfriends news, i know you all, as a close family were so delighted at becoming parents, and granparents. May you all gain the stength you need from each other at this sad time ….and my thoughts are with you all….take care my friend Polly xx

    Like

    Reply

  18. Aussie
    Nov 26, 2009 @ 13:23:12

    The loss of a mutual dream between a loving couple brings sadness , but the loss of your son and his partners truly is devestating and something that can never be forgotten , the little life will be remembered for eternity.Your family have my condolences , I truly understand your loss and its effects on a familyIan

    Like

    Reply

  19. pictimilitude
    Nov 02, 2013 @ 14:29:18

    I stumbled upon this post…I was enjoying spending some time on your wonderful website…my cup gets filled here. 🙂
    Anyways, when I mentioned if I would be chosen to be a parent a couple comments back….alas….this is part of what I was referring to. A couple years ago, my husby and I had a miscarriage…right after the loss of my brother…it was a hard time for sure. Since then, we haven’t been able to conceive. Not sure what the issue is, but I’m at peace with what the Universe has in store. Whatever’s meant to be is meant to be…but, like you said, I have many children and I’m able to give to them in ways I wouldn’t be able to if I did have kiddos.
    And a part of me wants to change the world so badly, I sometimes wonder if it’s not actually a good thing I don’t have little souls milling about.
    But a part of me wants a little soul milling about…so badly. I suppose it could still happen. In the meantime, I enjoy the peace I have in my life – living in the country with my husby, recuperating from a life with six brothers and sisters….haha. 😉

    Like

    Reply

    • Sue Dreamwalker
      Nov 04, 2013 @ 14:02:48

      Cyndi, I was sorry to hear about your loss, I know how hard that is.. as you read the post here… But I am sure when the time is meant to be, then it will be.. I have heard so many stories about couples who try so hard to conceive and fail, and then when they think thats it, and give up, they become parents… I often think the Universe gives us what we want.. literally.. We say we WANT so often and so are left WANTING.. I can so understand you wanting a little one.. And I too came from a large family as did my hubby.. I was the eldest of 5, and my Hubby is one of 6.. Thank you so much for commenting… And sometimes I think we are guided along our stumbling path 😉 LOL 🙂 xxx

      Like

      Reply

Please leave me your Thoughts!.. and add your Beat to my Drum

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s

Dreams

Member of The Internet Defense League

British Red Cross

Please Support the Red Cross, Help Others.

Speak Out Against Nuclear Power

Speak Out Against Nuclear Power

Visitors from Around the World

Flag Counter
Follow Dreamwalker's Sanctuary on WordPress.com

Help the Humane Society International

Help us help them survive

Free E-Book True Awakening Experiences ~ Download your copy here!

Thanks to Barbara, for putting this E Book Together at http://memymagnificentself.wordpress.com/

Dates Dreamwalker Beat Her Drum

November 2009
M T W T F S S
« Oct   Dec »
 1
2345678
9101112131415
16171819202122
23242526272829
30  

Stop Fracking in the UK..

Click to follow link to site

%d bloggers like this: