I Sometimes feel like we ought to know more about who we are or how to live. We may even chastise ourselves for making the same mistakes. But without those mistakes we would never learn or grow. And that is why we are here, our being born is that we are here to observe, learn, and grow.
Accompanying this is a built-in guarantee that there will be mistakes along the way. And while it is only natural that we may sometimes become overwhelmed, especially when the lessons keep coming, it is important to remember to be gentle with yourself too..
I know I all too often blame myself, and feel guilt and remorse over a harsh word or jibe but I have to remember we are all human, here for the human experience of learning along the way.. Some lessons are harsh and hard, while others can be joyful and enlightening.. But learning to understand yourself and your world is an ongoing and active process where the journey is all important as we head for that final destination.
I gave a talk this weekend to around 35 people at a Centre I attend, and I asked them what had they packed in their suitcases for their greatest journey? Some looked a little perplexed.. As I said well now when you go on holiday you pack your tooth-brush, clothes and bathing costume don’t you?.. and I got a few nods..
And then I asked them, ‘what do we take with us on that ultimate journey when we cross over the divide into the next realm of existence?’ Some said ‘nothing’, ‘we come in with nothing and we go out with nothing’..
‘Arrh’ I said, ‘that is where you are wrong, For we take with us our Good intent, we take with us our love, our memories, our kindness our compassion.. or we take with us the bitterness, anger, hate and loneliness.. it’s up to us what we pack within our hearts and souls as to what we take with us..’
And I told them a story.. One I have told here before.. but one I will share again… Just click the link below I wrote this in 2008..A True Story!…
https://suedreamwalker.wordpress.com/2008/09/08/a-true-story/
Love and Blessings..
© Sue Dreamwalker 2010 All rights reserved.
currie
Oct 20, 2010 @ 06:34:23
still learning to luv myself!
it’s a great post once again ~ tkx for sharing
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suedreamwalker
Oct 21, 2010 @ 00:03:00
Yes it took me many years before I started to love myself too Currie, But once we do…. we find that our journey becomes much more interesting!.. 🙂 So good that you dropped by…. hope you are well?.. x
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Lady Jude
Oct 20, 2010 @ 14:59:25
You’ve raised some interesting things, I’ve been giving it a bit of thought. Oh well I hope to be able to build my mansion and garden in the sky one day and not get lost in the fog up there.
Have a great day
Hugs Lady J
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suedreamwalker
Oct 21, 2010 @ 00:04:11
Thank you Lady J.. I always appreciate your comments and Im sure that you have built a beautiful garden full of Roses.. 🙂 xxx
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natswans
Oct 23, 2010 @ 16:43:52
Wonderful post Dreamwalker they say you have to learn to love yourself. Been a long haul but I think I am getting there. 🙂 Hugs Thank you Sheilax.
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